Well, so that didn't work out.   Turn out, hub wasn't as down with the swinging as I was.  Damn it.  Ah well.  I guess I might have to continue on my own.  Not exactly sure what I will do, or with whom, but suffice it to say, all 3 of the guys who were part of the couples we were supposed to meet on SLS have contacted me privately.  And by "contacted" I mean touched.  And kissed.